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Post by Pob on Jun 7, 2006 17:17:18 GMT
You two are so unfair. You know there are people round here who aren't getting any and you will keep fiddling with each others bits and pieces in front of everyone!
That's just rude!
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Post by tabitha on Jun 7, 2006 17:30:23 GMT
*Rushes in with nipples erect*.
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Post by Pob on Jun 7, 2006 17:34:37 GMT
* Uses Tabs' left nipple as a catapult to flick peanuts at Bogeyes *
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Post by fezzarooooo on Jun 7, 2006 17:34:53 GMT
*Rushes in with nipples erect*. *shoves pob outta the way* tis all good now
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Post by tabitha on Jun 7, 2006 17:39:07 GMT
* Uses Tabs' left nipple as a catapult to flick peanuts at Bogeyes * Its amazing what this bloke can do with one finger still stuck up his nose!! Yummmm salty nips!!!!
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 7:56:55 GMT
Ewwwww! Thanks for that mental image Tabs!!! I am just having a little vent about my ex, hereafter called Tithead or TH for short... There is a court order in place that says he has to have contact with our son (hereafter called Darling boy light-of-my-life, or Alex for short ) for one hour a week at a contact centre. This is to see how contact goes and also because he is a convicted child abductor. (of his other son, for 6 YEARS ) I cannot make contact this Saturday and emailed him a while ago. I may have mentioned before that he is abusive, nasty, dangerous and a total f*ckwit and I have serious concerns about his mental health. Anyway, to prove all this in reply to my email saying I couldn't make contact this week I received: I can't accept seeing Alex less than the paltry hour that has been given to me. I am aware that Gay pride is on that day but it doesn't start until 12pm. Further more you haven't even offered an alternative. I must insist that you bring Alex to see me as per the court order. I am happy to shift times and days as I understand that life goes on. Every time you want to alter times I have agreed however you have not been accommodating the other way in fact quite the opposite. I am still willing to build bridges and make compromises as always but it has to be two ways.
So, apparently I am going to Gay Pride this weekend!!! What I HATE about him is he always tried to come across as the reasonable one, making me look like a nuitter when he is so evil it is indescribable. What also annoys me is that he thinks he knows where I am going. I am actually going to see BOn Jovi, so he is just a total fecking idiot. And I hate what he has done to me, I hate that the law is still going out of its way to protect him and his rights and ignores me and my rights and the rights of our son to be prtected from a raving loon. I have seen him pull his other son down the stairs by his leg so he could lock him out of his house for a "lack of respect", his son was 11 at the time! Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh End of vent... you can all ignore me now
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 8:00:14 GMT
Actually, NOT end of vent *seething away merrily here* He phoned me in the middle of the night to tell me I would die for what I had done to him (I.e refuse to take him back after he risked my daughters life), he tried to rape me, he succeeded once and blamed ME for it... he is a evil, evil nasty ba*tard and yet he thinks that I will ever feel safe enough to be on my own in his company again. He has said in previous emails that he wants to meet for coffee so we can discuss things "as adults" and it just makes me look so unreasonable when I refuse and I can't seem to get across to people that I am terrified of him. They all think I am just some nutty, vindictive woman and I could just CRY..... NOW you can all ignore me
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Post by Pob on Jun 8, 2006 8:31:50 GMT
Make all our problems look small, why don't you? I hope he doesn't know where you live, he sounds like a maniac. I would seriously keep all the emails he sends you and get something that records phone conversations. Maybe call the police and say he has threatened your life (which he has). He doesn't sound like the type you should tread cautiously around.
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 8:39:45 GMT
He knows where I live and he has been here, but not since the court action started. He knows the law very well, having done it all before and so he won't do anything until he has unlimited access to our son . I keep everything, but it is unlikely it will be admissable as (apparently) emails can be easily faked. I might try the police, although last time I asked them I have to have concrete proof. I am used to it, I just have to vent every once in a while Thanks for answering! And no one's problems are small, I was a lot like you were with my ex husbnad (nice man, not a nutter) and for some reason it was harder to leave him because the problems didn't seem all that big. Life just keeps going on and before long it has been ten years and things are no better.... so I know how you feel (a little) with your wife and I don't think that is a small problem, so don't be silly!
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Post by veggiesosage on Jun 8, 2006 8:57:55 GMT
The problem is that the UK courts are still very unwilling to take into account actions of one partner against the other when deciding child access cases, saying that its the welfare of the child thats important. In a lot of cases thats probably correct. However, I can't see how its in the interests of a child to have contact with a parent who's been so violent to a partner, what sort of role model can they possibly be?
Bunny, I suspect its not the first time he's called you like that. Have you ever thought of installing call recording equipment on your phone? The law on recorded evidence in courts is very complex I think but I'm sure you could get advice on that.
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 9:03:16 GMT
I might look into recording phone calls and stuff. I think there may be something that lets you record things if at least one person is aware of being recorded... I am not sure though.... So much to look into and I still don't know if they will listen to me. I want a full CAFCASS/Social services reprot done. I don't even care if they have to do the same to me (to be fair) as I know I have nothing to hide. In a totally blowing-my-own-trumpet way, I know I am a good mother, so I wouldn't be worried. (May tidy up a bit, but that's all!). Still, 19th June and I should know a little more.... (Thanks for the reply btw )
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Post by Pob on Jun 8, 2006 9:09:09 GMT
I thought he was referring to the Bristol Vegan Fayre when he said Gay Pride. I can't believe you would rather go to see Bon Jovi than spend time with a bunch of smelly vegans
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Post by veggiesosage on Jun 8, 2006 9:15:10 GMT
I can't believe you'd rather watch Bon Jovi instead of paint drying ;D
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Post by Pob on Jun 8, 2006 9:18:43 GMT
Good point, Sosage ;D Now if it was a proper rock band like Judas Priest, that would be a different matter
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 9:32:01 GMT
I am shocked at the lack of taste on this board Not liking Bon Jovi is a very BIG problem, I don't even know how to begin to help you both.... Nickelback are warming up, so it's not all bad
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Post by RedWellies on Jun 8, 2006 10:19:16 GMT
Bon Jovi are great and Jon is HOT HOT HOT!!! So there!!
Bunny, sorry to hear you are having to deal with so much crap. I think maybe you should write to your ex so he'll write back (tell him your email's broken or something). Then you'll have concrete proof of what he says. Regarding taping calls...you could let the answerphone pick up first, then it will record at least part of the conversation. Some phones let you record conversations for a while too. Good luck with it all.
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Post by maisiepaisie on Jun 8, 2006 10:25:35 GMT
Bon Jovi are great and Jon is HOT HOT HOT!!! So there!! He used to be but why did he have to spoil himself by cutting his hair? Wow Bunny your ex sounds even more psycho than mine Hope things work out for you.
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 11:04:22 GMT
Thanks Red and Maisie.... I have kept every email he has ever sent, so he has a big problem if they are allowed in court! I hope so Jon is hot... *sigh* and I like his hair now too... I am just a Jon sleeper ....
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Post by bunny on Jun 8, 2006 11:04:56 GMT
sleeper was automatically corrected from w*ore btw!!!
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Post by Pob on Jun 8, 2006 11:12:04 GMT
You should come to the AR gathering - learn some useful tips on defending yourself, as well as meeting loads of luvverly vegans. Kids are welcome.
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