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Post by maisiepaisie on Dec 23, 2006 11:17:20 GMT
Sorry I've not been here for ages to see my replies. It turns out I was sacked although he didn't tell me until 3 days after I posted last and he wouldn't have told me then if I hadn't kept ringing to ask what was going on. I'm really down about this, amongst losts of other things which is the reason I haven't been online much. Its not that I wanted the job but when someone tells you your not good enough it makes you feel worthless. Well thats what I've been told several times in my life by employers and boyfriends so I'm not bothering with either anymore. My life is a pile of sh*t and going nowhere. If I didn't have responsibility for my children and my animals I would end it all right now.
Sorry to burden you all with this negativity right before christmas. I'm just so fed up with everything and I can't seem to get motivated. The main thing thats getting me down is this animal abusing world. I feel worse when I go demos but when I don't I feel guilty for not doing anything. I'm not strong enough to deal with it all anymore. I wish more than anything that all the non vegans would just die then everything would be ok. I hope I don't offend anyone by saying that as we all have loved ones who eat meat so I'm sorry but thats just the way I feel.
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Post by bobbywomble on Dec 23, 2006 11:44:43 GMT
poor maisie!!!!
although i think your boss is a total thingy and shouldnt be in charge of the pick and mix at woolworths, i dont think you should let it get you down so .
in a way its a good thing you found out what hes like now and can search for another job. god knows i have had some crap jobs and worked for some right tossers in my time, but you cannot let them drag you down to there level and make you feel shite.
i always say life is what you make it and although it doesnt seem like it now its not so bad to be knocked now and again in fact i say it makes you stronger in the future...and more determined to succeed in what you want to do not what they want you to do...
if you have had a few crap boyfriends in the past i would dare say you would have to go a long way to find someone who couldnt list a long line of tossers they once went out with so join the club lol (membership card in the post ) what you must not ever do is believe there vile crap and carry on unfazed and realise they are the ones with problems not you ... your better of out of it rather than spending your life with someone who wont support you and back you up when you need it.....
wise wombles advise get out there and get another job but do summit you always wanted to do but never pursued in the past. i always say "starting a new job is like learning to drive a car " "every one was a learner once"and if the instructor wont let you make a mistake get a new one"
so dont let them win and get you down,get out there and prove them wrong all you need is the courage to do it i know you can do it
courage is not the absence of fear , its the presence of fear yet the will to go on........
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Post by Wabbit on Dec 23, 2006 12:06:57 GMT
awwww maisie,
so sorry that so many ppl tell you so much negativity and making you feel worthless ; i know that many of us get this from others, so i always say listen to those who tell you good, and don't listen to the judgmental a**holes who put you down...
i think that all those who said bad aren't quality at all ; wish we lived closer, would drop in to see & cheer you up and tell you positive remarks... that you're a good person, kind and that you're making a change in this world of cruel ppl, by doing AR and being vegan, you are sending a message that you won't participate in their cruel ways, that you give a damn & care !
sorry that you got sacked, that sucks espcially in this period of endless shopping, what a worthless boss !
it is a difficult period to pass but am sure you'll find something soon... will send you a pm with some ideas in a couple minutes...
i sure can understand how you feel toward all the corpse eaters ; i've felt this way too very often and am sure many of us have as well, at one point or another...
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Post by earthmother on Dec 24, 2006 10:46:29 GMT
Maisie your ex box is a real shit, he is also not a good boss, a good boss would not make excuses for you not to come into work he would have been straight with you and told you you were no longer required. He should not have left you hanging around wondering or made any personal remarks.
Don't worry too much on the boyfriend front either, there are loads of useless tossers, but there are loads of nice men too, you just have to give them a chance, I went through a barrelload of tossers before I met my hubby, but he was worth waiting for and there will be someone out there looking for you, probably thinking that all the women he finds are crap too, then you'll meet and bingo! You'll find each other don't worry, you have loads of time.
Another thing, you have kids? well I'm pretty sure they love you to bits, and there is no love like the love of your children, that makes you pretty special. ;D
As for the animal abusers, that kind of thing is always going to happen, take a step back from the demos for a little while to give yourself time to get strong again. You are doing a lot for animals by being a vegan already, you are leading by example.
This time of year is always hard, but chin up you have your children, your gorgeous piggies and everyone here.
If you need a chat please feel free to pm me.
Big hugs xxx
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Post by tabitha on Dec 24, 2006 11:00:35 GMT
so sorry you are feeling down Maisie Your boss did sound a right w*nker! All the advice given above is good advice. Come and have a lovely party on New Years Eve with lots of lovely vegans. 2007 will be a much, much better year. You have loads to offer, you are a lovely, caring mum, you are a beautiful lady and a very compassionate person. If I were a bloke I would snap you up in a second!!! *locks Pob up in case he gets any ideas *
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Post by Tiggerwoos on Dec 24, 2006 11:25:49 GMT
I can't really offer any more advice than the brill advice the others have said, but here's a hug and good wishes for Christmas. 2007 WILL be a better year.
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Post by sweetnessandlight on Dec 24, 2006 12:23:09 GMT
Well I thought I saw you the other day amongst a bunch of schoolgirls Maisie! The only thing that convinced me it wasn't you was the fact she was wearing proper footwear
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Post by maisiepaisie on Dec 25, 2006 13:58:24 GMT
Thank you all for your kind words. I'm nearly crying now. You people are better than my family. Apart from my youngest son, my family don't give a crap about me but at least I have friends here. Have a wonderful xmas everyone and I look forward to seeing some of you at VBBs party next week xx
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Post by maya on Jan 5, 2007 16:02:35 GMT
Upset and unhappy today!!!! As some of you may know I moved last year to get away from my ex who kept showing up banging at my door. Well I have had some peace for a while then last night he was knocking at my door. WTF how does he know where I live and how did he get into my gated community??? Along with that I recieved 40 phone calls at least on my cell from him last night. Thinking now that I need to speak to the police. Will this ever be over!!!!! ??
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Post by Wabbit on Jan 5, 2007 16:06:11 GMT
omg that's harrassement ! talk to the cops indeed hope they'll help you & get a restraining order Upset and unhappy today!!!! As some you of you may know I moved last year to get away from my ex who kept showing up banging at my door. Well I have had some piece for a while then last night he was knocking at my door. WTF how does he know where I live and how did he get into my gated community??? Along with that I recieved 40 phone calls at least on my cell from him last night. Thinking now that I need to speak to the police. Will this ever be over!!!!! ??
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Post by Wabbit on Jan 5, 2007 16:23:27 GMT
awwww maisie ((((())) we'll always be here for you i know i will, i know what it means not to have any friend so i offer it ((((()))) & same for all the offers i sent you in pm, they're open Thank you all for your kind words. I'm nearly crying now. You people are better than my family. Apart from my youngest son, my family don't give a crap about me but at least I have friends here. Have a wonderful xmas everyone and I look forward to seeing some of you at VBBs party next week xx
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Post by sluggie on Jan 5, 2007 19:29:40 GMT
I'd definitely call the police, Maya. Are there security personnel at the entrance to your gated community? Perhaps you could give them a photo of him so they know to call the police if he shows up.
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Post by maya on Jan 5, 2007 19:44:26 GMT
I live in a gated community without a guard. You need a code to get in. Made a report with police today the have it on file. Moving on to the next step restraining order. I'd definitely call the police, Maya. Are there security personnel at the entrance to your gated community? Perhaps you could give them a photo of him so they know to call the police if he shows up.
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Post by tabitha on Jan 6, 2007 13:34:35 GMT
Poor Maya Hope this resolves itself soon. At least you have started the police thing in motion. Perhaps he will get the hint now. Lots of love. Wish we were all nearer to you!
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